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Articles in Secondary Attachments: Fathers, Grandparents & Other Loved Ones

Living Proof: An Older Father Grows Up
Wednesday, 24 Dec, 2008 – 2:40 | One Comment

By Dennis Lockard
**Originally published in the Summer 2007 Secondary Attachments issue of The Journal of API
Several months before the birth of our son Jack, my wife Liz started talking about using a sling instead of …

Small Blessings: A Father Recalls His Preemie Daughter’s Birth
Wednesday, 24 Dec, 2008 – 2:26 | No Comment

By Mike Brhel
**Originally published in the Summer 2007 Secondary Attachments issue of The Journal of API
My wife and I had always wanted a family. We had tried for a child during the first few years …

The Right Stuff: How AP Changed One Father’s Priorities
Wednesday, 24 Dec, 2008 – 1:27 | No Comment

By Greg Stone
**Originally published in the Summer 2007 Secondary Attachments issue of The Journal of API
How nice it would be if we didn’t need jobs! Every morning we would wake up saying, “What should we …

Seasons of Change: Helping a Child When Work Takes a Parent Away
Wednesday, 24 Dec, 2008 – 1:06 | No Comment

By Pam Stone, co-leader of API of Merrimack Valley, New Hampshire
**Originally published in the Summer 2007 Secondary Attachments issue of The Journal of API
Our week begins when I first utter the phrase, “Daddy’s coming home …

Is Primary Attachment Better than Secondary Attachment?
Wednesday, 24 Dec, 2008 – 0:41 | No Comment

From API’s Publications Team
**Originally published in the Summer 2007 Secondary Attachments issue of The Journal of API
The term “secondary attachment” can be interpreted erroneously to mean “less important,” but Attachment Parenting International refutes this definition.
Primary …

The Changing Role of the New Father
Saturday, 8 Nov, 2008 – 14:38 | One Comment

By Nancy Da Silva
Years ago, a new father had little to do with parenting. The traditional view has him in the waiting room, passing out cigars, and then going off to work to earn money …

The Vital Importance of the Grandparent-Grandchild Bond
Saturday, 8 Nov, 2008 – 14:26 | 6 Comments

By Rita Brhel, managing editor and attachment parenting resource leader (API)
It has only been about 20 years since Dr. William Sears coined the term “Attachment Parenting” in reference to a set of nurturing parenting practices, …

Tips for New Fathers in Bonding with Their Newborns
Saturday, 8 Nov, 2008 – 0:28 | No Comment

By Nancy Da Silva
The most important thing for new dads to remember is that they are not competing with moms for baby time or for the baby’s favor.
While bonding will happen more quickly between mothers …

Long-Distance Grandparenting
Sunday, 26 Oct, 2008 – 0:06 | No Comment

By Rita Brhel, managing editor and attachment parenting resource leader (API)
For many people, grandparenting comes as easy as the love they felt for their own children.
But not all grandparents live close enough to visit their …

Stay-at-Home Parenting Not Just for Moms
Tuesday, 21 Oct, 2008 – 14:43 | No Comment

By Rita Brhel, managing editor and attachment parenting resource leader (API)
Perhaps you and your spouse have decided that stay-at-home parenting is valuable for your family, and you’re trying to decide who, between you, is the …